I asked spirit what I should write about this month for my blog and this is what they said…”Loss isn’t real!” What’s that? I responded. “Loss isn’t real”, said Spirit. So I sat down and asked them to explain. I channelled the following:
“Loss’ is a human construct. However it isn’t real – you can never lose something. Things or items do not belong to you - not really – not in the true sense of the word. And so how can you lose that which never belonged to you?
So whilst you may buy something to have in your home or to use, because you cannot take this material item with you into the next dimension once you pass, how can it truly belong to you? Therefore to ‘lose’ something that you don’t actually own, cannot be real either. And so it is for loved ones too”.
I asked Spirit to explain further. This is what I was given:
“So Lindsey often states that the only constant in your life is change. And with any kind of change – including positive change comes an aspect of loss. And that along with loss, comes grief depending upon how you feel about that loss – the more you care, the more you grieve.
But what if there is no loss? What if nothing belongs to you and therefore you cannot lose what you don’t have – what then if grief is also a human construct?
If you love more, and if you allow that love to be wholly expansive, and your love travels with the person you have ‘lost’ from your human life into other dimensions, then you cannot lose them, and therefore grief is not necessary – if you were to start to believe that you cannot lose the thing that you love, whatever, or whoever that is, then there is no grief – this completely turns everything you have ever thought around.
So can you bring yourself to let go of your feeling of earthly love and allow universal love to come in instead, enabling you see the continuance of your feelings and therefore there is no loss and therefore no grief? Can you do that? Is that feasible?
When the physical body of a loved one dies, their soul continues to a different realm – they have not gone – they are just somewhere else. So whilst you may miss their physical human self, they are still with you just in another form. It is a matter of trust from yourself that is in question here. If you trust that they are still with you and that they still exist, then what need is there to grieve?
It is without doubt that in your human world there is a tendency to hold great store by physical touch and emotions and feelings and we would never encourage you to do away with these – these are what make you human, what we are explaining here is the ability to expand your consciousness into a more expansive universal outlook that will support you to see a different way and to understand that your loved one is never lost to you - EVER! You can chat with them whenever you wish – they can hear you and see you – and if you tried, you can develop your own senses to hear and see them also.
Lindsey is concerned that this blog will be too much for your senses to understand however, the more spiritual amongst you are more than halfway there in this feeling and understanding.
So to conclude…it is a human thing to feel and think and allow your conscious and subconscious mind to believe that people and animals die and that you can never access them again. We are asking you to suspend this belief and explore in your hearts whether this is really so? Can you feel your loved one in your heart? Can you feel their soul? Can you hear their voice? Can you still imagine the touch of their hand on yours? If this is difficult – close your eyes and really surrender to this thinking allow yourself to link in with the universal collective and allow your loved one to come close and be by your side – allow them to speak with you, allow your mind to bring forth their answers to you – you can do it, you know! Just allow and see what happens.
Missing loved ones is not the same as grieving them – there is a fine line between them – but they are fundamentally different. So whilst you may miss someone very much, by their absence, grieving is different in so much as it tends to come as a shock to the human system and what follows is anger and torment and a much deeper level of hurt and pain that they are no longer with you when this is not truly the case and it is not warranted if you were only to believe this way of thinking.
We leave you now and we leave you with our love and blessings. The Angels of The Grief Collective”.
So my understanding from the above then is that missing our loved ones is a natural and human way of being, however, grieving is not necessary as they are not lost to us, they are purely in another dimension – and that with practice, we can all communicate with our loved ones as if they were not gone.
In essence this backs up many peoples’ belief that clairvoyance, clairaudience and clairsentience are available for all of us and developing these would perhaps take away all of our grief.
Now this channelling came as a bit of a surprise to me. And I hope that it has given you as much food for thought as it has myself. It is making me think through all of my grief services and perhaps I should be labelling them as ‘missing journeys’ rather than ‘grief journeys’. I would be interested to know your thoughts around loss and grief and what Spirit has imparted for us to consider. So to do this, I am inviting you to a Live Zoom evening on Wednesday, 15 October at 7pm to discuss all of the above. Click the link below to register for the call:
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In the meantime – you can access the Angels who shared their wisdom, within The Grief Collective Meditation [see link below]. Below are ways that you can work with me and if you would like an informal chat about how I can support you, then please do get in touch.
With love,
Lindsey xx
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Ways to work with me:
Services for Grief:
NEW SERVICE: Grief before Loss Service for those who are anticipating the loss of a loved one and are grieving before their loved one has passed away.
Healing Hearts Service for those who are in the acute aspects of their grief journey having experienced a profound loss
Life after Loss Programme for those who have come to accept their loss and wish to reignite their purpose, identity and life.
Healing therapies: – in person or remote healing given to individuals providing Reiki & Seichem; Green Ray Reiki; Crystal Healing and Violet Flame Healings.
IEMT (Integral Eye Movement Therapy): A quick change process to address unwanted feelings, thoughts and emotions that lead to anxiety, depression. Can also address trauma and PTSD and many other issues.
Life Coaching/NLP: Sessions for those who wish to move forwards in their goals and dreams, addressing any limiting beliefs and challenges that may hinder your journey.
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